In this episode of Let’s Get Real, Michael and Spanish dive deep into one of the most overlooked skills in men’s mental health — listening without judgment.
It all starts with a story about Michael’s coaching client, a neuroscientist helping moms of special needs kids. Even though her work is rooted in neuroscience and biohacking, she discovered that many clients simply needed someone to listen. That’s when it hit us: being a good listener can sometimes do more for someone than any title, degree, or “official” counseling session.
We explore the pros and cons of being a good listener — from carrying other people’s emotional weight to the unmatched power of creating a safe space for someone to unload. We talk about what it means to hold space, drop judgment, and tap into authenticity so deeply that people feel it from miles away.
This episode also features an incredible live call from Mark, who shares his spiritual journey, his belief in love as the ultimate guiding force, and a mind-expanding conversation about consciousness, ego, and why we might actually choose to forget our past lives just for the joy of remembering.
If you’ve ever wondered why people open up to you, or you’ve felt drained from listening but don’t want to stop being there for others — this one’s for you.
Key Takeaways
✅ Listening without judgment is more powerful than giving advice.
✅ Being a good listener requires knowing how to let go of the emotional weight afterward.
✅ Authenticity creates the strongest human connection — even across distance.
✅ Safe spaces for men to share are rare but life-changing.
✅ Spiritual insight: maybe we choose to forget our past so we can enjoy the process of remembering.
Timestamps
00:00 – Michael’s story about his client, Amelia, and the lesson on listening
01:30 – Why listening matters more than having the “right” title or credentials
03:05 – The pros and cons of being a good listener
05:06 – Why judgment destroys the gift of listening
07:16 – Authenticity as the strongest form of human energy
08:15 – “Verbal Vomit Ponchos” — creating space for emotional unloading
08:26 – Live caller Mark shares his spiritual journey
10:00 – Love as the ultimate rudder in life
12:20 – Are we close to a global shift in human connection?
13:40 – Why forgetting our past may be part of the plan
14:44 – Closing thoughts with Mark
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