In this special episode of Conversations at the Well, Vernon and Desireé are joined by a very special guest—Vernon’s mom, Yvette Allen, or “Lady E.” Together, they dive into the theme of crossroads, exploring how to make tough decisions about what to hold on to and what to let go when life’s transitions demand change.
Yvette shares her wisdom and experiences from major crossroads in her life, shedding light on the factors that guided her decisions. Desireé opens up about facing her own crossroads, grappling with balancing work, family, and personal fulfillment. Through honest and humorous dialogue, the trio unpacks how we can evaluate what truly matters, prioritize our well-being, and ultimately trust the process of change.
If you’re standing at a crossroads in your life or just need some inspiration to take that next step, this episode is for you. Grab a seat, reflect with us, and let’s make life-changing decisions together.
Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome and Introduction to Our Special Guest
01:02 - Crossroads in Life: When Big Decisions Call
02:15 - Yvette’s Story: Moving a Family for New Opportunities
04:46 - Finding Purpose in Every Crossroad
08:27 - Balancing Career, Family, and Fulfillment
12:17 - The Importance of Impactful Choices
17:34 - Letting Go of Things that No Longer Serve Us
21:03 - Decision-Making in Seasons of Change
28:16 - Focus on the Process, Not Just the Goal
33:55 - Final Thoughts: Embracing Life’s Crossroads