Raw, unfiltered, and completely unrehearsed - welcome to an episode where we strip away the polish and dive straight into questions that made us squirm, reflect, and occasionally gasp.
This conversation began with a simple premise: what happens when two coaches who regularly challenge clients face unexpected questions themselves? The result is a fascinating exploration of vulnerability that reveals as much about coaching as it does about us. From examining what traits we attract in clients that mirror our own growth edges to confronting which past versions still hold the most shame, each question peels back another layer of self-awareness.
One particularly powerful moment emerges when we discuss what our inner children might demand we stop doing. The realization that we often seek permission from everyone except ourselves hits hard, as does the admission that ambitious dreams can be blocked by persistent thoughts of "why me?" Perhaps most compelling is our final exploration of how trauma shapes power - and the fear that sharing our stories might either diminish others' experiences or reduce complex pain to simplistic "everything happens for a reason" narratives.
What makes this conversation different is that you're witnessing our real-time processing - complete with long pauses, moments of confusion, and occasional resistance. We're practicing exactly what we preach: staying curious in uncomfortable moments rather than rushing to tidy conclusions. These questions have transformed conversations in our coaching containers, and we'd love to hear how they land with you. Which question resonated most? What truth emerged that surprised you? Drop into our DMs and let us know - we're here for the messy, beautiful reality of growth, not just the highlight reel.
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