Friendships are strange things. In other relationships the rules are pretty clear to most of us, but friendships can take so many forms and many of the rules are concealed – and are often bewildering. When we make a true friend it’s like a magic spell has been cast over us – we feel so lucky! But what do we do when this initial bubble bursts? What does the work of friendship involve? How can we best deal with the changes, hurdles, uncomfortable and painful times?In this episode I look at some of the problems with friendships. Shockingly – research has found – most friendships WON’T last. Most of us know the terrible devastation of losing a friendship – which can be more painful than losing a partner! And yet, some friendships DO last a lifetime – as have many of mine! I’ll tell you how, and why making new friends is part of keeping old friendships. Learn how to ride and manage the magic and mystery of friendships.