In this episode of Hope Floats, hosts Shoshawna Rainwater and Rachel Coady discuss the complexities of moving a loved one with dementia into a care facility. They explore the emotional and logistical challenges caregivers face, including financial considerations, legal decision-making, and the importance of mindset on move day. The conversation emphasizes the need for careful planning, consultation with professionals, and the emotional support required for both caregivers and those living with dementia.They emphasize the importance of clear communication, emotional reassurance, and the use of comfort stories to ease the transition. The discussion also covers the timing and delivery of difficult news, strategies for a smooth move day, and the critical need for self-care for caregivers after such a significant event.
Takeaways:
- Key things to do before the move- consult with professionals, consider finances now and moving forward, make sure your paperwork is as complete as possible.
- Consult with a financial advisor and elder law attorney.
- Most care is funded through private pay or out of pocket.
- Long-term care insurance can be complex and difficult to access.
- Legal decision-making for moving a person with dementia can be complicated.
- Initial visits to care facilities should be done without the person with dementia.
- Caregivers often feel dread and guilt about moving their loved ones.
- It's normal for individuals with dementia to experience confusion after a move.
- Caregivers should prepare for emotional reactions from their loved ones.
- Keep communication about the move simple and confident. Practice clear communication to ease understanding and involve trusted individuals in delivering difficult news.
- Emotional reassurance is key in difficult conversations.
- Use comfort stories to facilitate transitions.
- Timing and delivery of news matter greatly.
- Smooth transitions require planning and support and creating a familiar environment in the new setting helps.
- Post-move care is essential for both the patient and caregiver.
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