You’ve spent years being the rock, the giver, the caretaker — the one who keeps it all together. But what happens when the woman holding everyone else up starts to crumble inside?
In this raw and liberating episode, Kena calls out the toxic myths that have kept midlife women small.
Through laughter, truth, and a few well-placed “fuck thats,” she flips the script: self-care isn’t indulgence — it’s sacred rebellion. You’ll learn how to fill your own cup first, release resentment, and reconnect to your soul’s whispers of peace, pleasure, and expansion.
By the end, you’ll remember what it feels like to give from overflow, not depletion. Because when you choose you first, life starts flowing with more ease, joy, and freedom.
✨ In This Episode You’ll Learn
🦋 Reflection Questions
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🦋 Midlife Butterfly is a podcast for high-achieving midlife women navigating emotional exhaustion, people pleasing, self-abandonment, nervous system healing, identity shifts, and midlife awakening. Hosted by Kena Siu, Identity & Embodiment Guide.
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Music: Back Home by Alex Productions and Reborn by Alexander Nakarada