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How to Handle Confrontation Without Blowing Things Up

You bite your tongue. You play it nice. But inside? You’re boiling. 

In this episode, Rosie and Roula dig into the uncomfortable art of confrontation. Why do we avoid it so much—and at what cost? From shaky voices and sweaty palms to deep conversations that actually bring people closer, this one’s for anyone who struggles to speak up. 

We talk about: 

• The fear of rocking the boat (especially for women) 
• How to confront someone without making them run 
• The messy beauty of repair after real conversations 
• Why keeping the peace can sometimes cost your peace 

Whether you’re a “bottle-it-up” or a “blurt-it-out” kind of person, this episode will make you rethink what it really means to be honest—and how to confront with kindness, clarity, and calm. 

🎙️ The Rosie and Roula Show — Episode 127  

🎧 Out now wherever you get your podcasts  

💬 Tell us how you deal with confrontation at rosieandroula.com 

Takeaways 

• Confrontation is often avoided to keep the peace, but it can lead to resentment.  
• Trust and safety are crucial when confronting someone.  
• Effective communication involves understanding how to express feelings without aggression.  
• The aftermath of confrontation can vary, and both parties need time to process.  
• Self-reflection is essential before confronting someone about their behavior.  
• Using 'I' language can help in expressing feelings without placing blame.  
• It's important to confront from a place of care and understanding.  
• Not confronting is a choice that comes with its own consequences.  
• Confrontation can be a learning experience for both parties involved.  
• Repairing relationships after confrontation requires effort and understanding. 

Keywords 

confrontation, communication, trust, safety, self-reflection, accountability, relationships, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, personal growth 

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