We get raw and real about the art of shutting the f*** up. Far from weakness, silence can be one of the most loving and life-giving choices we make — for ourselves and for our relationships.
Enisa shares how learning to pause, hold space, and stop trying to control or fix others completely transformed her relationship, her self-leadership, and the way she connects with clients and loved ones.
If you’ve ever felt the urge to over-explain, defend, or fix everyone else’s problems, this episode will show you a different way — one rooted in trust, acceptance, and radical self-love.
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Timestamps:
01:00 – The art of shutting the f*** up
02:00 – How silence transformed my relationship
04:00 – Permission, projection & space-holding
06:00 – Why we feel the need to always speak
08:00 – Speaking from wounds vs. wisdom
10:00 – The sneaky shame behind giving advice
12:00 – Asking: “Do you want me to listen or give advice?”
13:00 – Why people can’t hear you when they’re in their own pain
15:00 – Holding space instead of fixing
17:00 – Leadership in communication & safe space dynamics
18:00 – Life-giving vs. life-taking responses
20:00 – Choosing love over ego in hard conversations
22:00 – The power of the pause
24:00 – Silence as trust & self-honoring
25:00 – Letting others show you who they are
27:00 – Control vs. acceptance in relationships
30:00 – Why projecting your vision on others isn’t love
32:00 – Letting people be in their season
34:00 – Rebuilding connection without control
36:00 – Shifting from proving to presence
37:00 – Silence as a devotional practice
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