Fewer young men are in the workforce, and a huge percentage are still hanging out in their parents’ basement at 34 years of age. What is this mollycoddling of our young men, but a soft approach to sin, a soft approach to righteousness, and a tepid or absent love for God? We provide the antidote to soft boys, narcissistic men, fake repentance, and the toleration of sin. We compare Saul and Samuel in their treatment of Agag.