First, I just want to say a huge THANK YOU to Fay—for her light, knowledge, healing, growth, and time. This 3-part series has been a true blessing to me, and I hope it’s brought something meaningful to you on the other side of this audio.
In Part 3, we go deep. This conversation is raw, real, and it moved me to tears. We talk about pouring from an empty glass, root cause analysis, and how to STOP the cycle. Fay shares powerful insights on “the faces of the victim”—the Rescuer and the Persecutor—and how we often shift between both roles. Sometimes we’re waiting for someone to save us, but the truth is: only we can do that.
One of the biggest takeaways? We treat others the way we want to be treated, but it’s time to flip that: Treat yourself how you want to be treated. When you do, you’ll never accept anything less. Don’t pour from your cup—pour from your saucer, your overflow.
Fay offers a heartfelt message to her younger self—and a message to you, too. It’s a reminder to love yourself and that healing is possible, growth is inevitable, and you are worthy of ALL.
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Remember, you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.
