This week we are taking on discipline. A tough, and expansive, topic. We can't cover it all, so we take a look at four words that help frame how we can approach disciplining our children well: intentionality, heart-focused, restoration, and love. Come for the wisdom; stay for the Dumb and Dumber quotes.
- Intentionality: Thinking ahead, not just responding to our kids' behavior in the moment. Also, a wonderful opportunity to process and plan together with your spouse (i.e., be on the same team together).
- Heart-focused: Developing values in our children's hearts for the long-term, not just trying to modify their behavior in the moment.
- Restoration: Ensuring our child knows that they are loved even when they have done something wrong or have experienced the consequences of discipline. They are safe, they are home, they are loved. (Important related note: Sometimes we have to seek restoration because we have wronged them. They benefit from seeing us own our mistakes, asking for forgiveness from them, and seeking restoration of the relationship.)
- Love: Preparing them for the ups and down of life by gently and lovingly coaching, teaching, directing, and discipling our kids.
During this podcast episode, we focus on the heart of discipline, but here are some practical resources for the "how to's" of disciplining your children lovingly:
The Stat of the Week is a quick one about social media usage. "Live a big life, Buddy!"
As always, thank you for listening! We hope you enjoy this episode, and if you do please take a moment to share the podcast with a friend who might be encouraged by this conversation or who just needs a good laugh at our expense.
