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Rayna Neises, ACC, host, reflects on the thoughts shared during last week’s interview with Leslie McLeod. She expands on the concepts Leslie shared regarding relationships within families and how they affect the caregiving journey. Rayna sites several works to provide perspective on the various roles:
- If you find yourself as the “hero”, feeling like you are the only one doing anything, let go and invite other family members to be a part of the season.
- Watch for the “people pleaser” who is always willing to help but may not be taking care of themselves.
- The “rebel” pops in and out and may step up, but then quickly moves on doing their own thing. It is best to draw them in and help them to realize they are an important part of the family and care team.
- The role of bringing joy and spending time with your aging parent is a great fit for the “mascot or clown of the family”.
- Shining a light on the value that the “quiet, withdrawn” family member brings can help them be a part of the team.
- All you can do is invite members of the family and allow them to carry what they can.
- Use the strength of the “switchboard” and let them be the one who gets the information out.
- Wanting others to be happy is a trait of the “cheerleader.” They fill an important role throughout the caregiving season.
- Do not rush the “thinker” and they will be able to research and provide logical conclusions.
- The “rescuer” often tries to solve all the problems and carry the weight themselves.
- There are strengths and weaknesses within each role. Allowing each person to grow and do what works best for them is the most helpful.
- Do what you can to build bridges and find ways to support family members regardless of their role from the past.
- Visit the show notes at www.aseasonofcaring.com/podcast and download a tip sheet on Navigating Relationships During Caregiving Season.
