Lindy Lewis, the Banking from Breakup coach, shares her insights on what she calls the “ultimate breakup bounce back.” She comes with a wealth of knowledge, pulling from her own Breakupward story of a long-term relationship where she was left ghosted and her identity missing. Her story, of course, didn’t end there. Lindy shares with the TYHB audience how she went from losing herself in the process of loving another to winning herself back through self-love, which is a riveting, restorative journey in and of itself. In this episode, we delve into leveraging your breakup and using it to your advantage so you can move on with your life and become a stronger, more confident version of yourself. And, in true Lindy fashion, she tells us how we can start banking from a breakup right now… because, as her grandmother insisted, you should never leave a breakup empty handed. Other gems to listen out for:+ why your ex owes you nothing and how the only closure you need comes from the breakup itself+ taking back your power and control to design a life that elevates you+ how we are all each other’s teachers and why we resist this thinking when a breakup is fresh+ how we can choose to be consumed by our breakup or elevated+ the sobering, if not startling, insight that love doesn’t conquer all+ the stigma that comes with being single and what we're really afraid of+ why we love others before ourselves+ the significance in befriending yourself+ the benefits of putting yourself through a manbattical or a year of living manlessly+ and so much more.Mentioned during this episode:Lindy Lewis’ Mogul Spotlight: https://onmogul.com/stories/thank-you-heartbreak-spotlighting-creatives-29Daniel Sloss’s Netflix show, Jigsaw, which he calls a love letter to single people: https://www.netflix.com/title/80223685Research from Noddle finding that 1 in 4 adults experience severe financial difficultly after a breakup: https://www.express.co.uk/finance/city/913720/relationship-fail-breakdown-who-suffers-financial-burden-battle-of-the-sexes “Relationships don’t end because two people did something wrong to each other—they end because two people are something wrong for each other,” by Mark Manson from his article, “How To Get Over Someone And Move On With Your Life." https://markmanson.net/how-to-get-over-someone“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time,” by Maya Angelou"How To Be Ghosted With Dignity," the advice column written by Chelsea for The Huffington Post: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/advice-column-how-to-be-ghosted-with-dignity_us_58486e21e4b013b566b2ba5d—Work with Lindy: http://bankingfrombreakup.com/work-together/Website: www.bankingfrombreakup.comTwitter: www.twitter.com/bankfrombreakupEmail: hello@bankingfrombreakup.comGrab your copy of her Banking from Breakup Manifesto as a thank you gift http://bankingfrombreakup.com/manifesto/ It will change the way you look at your breakup!Look out for her new book “Finding Your Power and Purpose Through Your Pain” which will be out on Amazon later this year.—Sign up for Chelsea’s newsletter at: bit.ly/tyhbletterFind Chelsea’s website at: www.breakupward.comWork with Chelsea at: www.breakupward.com/shopConnect and send in your questions and/or letters on Instagram.com/thankyouheartbreak or by email Chelsea@breakupward.com
