Today I hear Cardinal Sarah say love consumes without burning and yet says nothing is the greatest Love. He goes on to say that that same love without words consents.
Consent means to give permission or to agree to allowing something to happen or to do something.
When we give God permission to enter into our daily lives of struggles and challenges we consent to his will. We don’t have to say anything, we can simple open our hearts up to him and allow him to abide in us.
Jesus consented to die on the cross for love of me, that is “The Greatest Love”. John 15:13 says it best “no one has greater love than to lay down his live for his friends”.
Giving God the love he gives me is the best way I can consent to his presence in my life.
This day’s reflection immediately brought me back to the many funerals I have had the honor of attending. Funerals are difficult and we don’t ever know what to say. I have learned that saying nothing are the best words. Being present amid the loss is a great gift to the family. The family opens themselves up to the pain that comes with each condolence as it arises memories of their loved one.
A hug or handshake can bring lots of comfort to those that grieve.
I feel that this is the silent love that Cardinal Sarah is talking about. True love is not flowery words or outlandish gestures. It is being present when needed the most!
Silent presence is very powerful.