Be nice to people. It's the single most important thing.
Music and links from this episode
- Cylinder Nine by Chris Zabriskie
- The Life and Death of a Certain K. Zabriskie, Patriarch by Chris Zabriskie
- Sphere by Creo
Line-by-line notes
- INTRO
- I like to give out lots of tips to designers
- And generally
- They just apply to being a good human as well
- Today's episode definitely falls into this category
- Ever since we started Genius Division
- The design agency I run with a few other conspirators
- We've tried to live by one mantra
- Work hard and be nice to people
- Yesterday was work hard
- Today is be nice to people
- This is AADA, and I’m Craig Burgess
- PLAY MID SONG
- Manners cost nothing
- Good manners are your beauty
- Your mood shouldn't dictate your manners
- I tried to find quote about being nice too
- But they were all negative
- And paranoid
- Nice guys always finish last
- Even the nicest people have their limits
- Quotes like that
- There's an inherent distrust of nice people
- Especially in Britain, where nobody can take a compliment
- People constantly that that if you're being nice, you want something
- Or there's a reason for being nice
- Beyond just being nice
- I absolutely don't believe nice guys finish last at all
- And you shouldn't either
- The whole idea of finishing last
- Suggests there's an idea of success that everybody buys into
- Which is just not true
- Being nice is the cornerstone of everything I do
- I hate it when somebody thinks otherwise of me
- I hate it when I've hurt somebody or somebody is annoyed at me
- In an ideal world I'd love everybody to like me
- And I'm not saying that I'm an egotistical way
- I mean everybody should just like everybody
- There's no need for backhanded compliments
- Or silly games behind people's backs
- Let's just all be nice
- And let's get it out of the way now
- Being nice doesn't mean you're weak
- Or you're a pushover
- Or you let others get their own way all the time
- Despite what Hollywood and TV shoves down all our throats
- You can politely decline
- And you don't need an argument to solve a difference of opinion
- I think in the design world, being nice is especially important
- The design world is still pretty small
- And most people know each other
- It's quite incestuous that way
- So you never know when you might stumble across somebody again in a different job
- I don't believe in burning bridges no matter how hard the other side might try to set it on fire
- Being nice isn't trendy anymore I guess
- The corporate mentality is to drop things on everybody below you and throw stones at people above you
- Everybody is a target and somebody to be stepped on
- But in a meritocracy
- Where everybody is out to get on the next rung of the ladder
- It forgets about the people
- Design is all about people
- It's about the people you share a studio with
- It's about your clients you help create amazing work for
- And it's about your peers and other people who you ask for advice from
- You have to be nice to all...