Is the art of conversation dying, or is it just different?
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Music and links from this episode
- Comfortably loved by Soft and Furious
- When the blood driving the self by Soft and Furious
- Empowered Ending by Soft and Furious
Line-by-line notes
- It’s funny
- Talking about the dying art of conversation to a medium of listeners that’s all about conversation
- But it’s a topic I talk about a lot to my friends about
- And it’s an important topic to designers
- The reason it’s important to designers is because so much of what we do is about conversing
- We have to have a conversation to sell our design work
- To discuss projects, goals and briefs
- And countless other parts of our job that require designers to be masters of the art of conversation
- But how does this change our job, if the art of conversation is dying
- This is AADA, and I’m Craig Burgess
- MUSIC
- On April the 21st, 2006, the BBC ran an article about the dying art of conversation
- In it they spoke to two self styled expert conversationalists about how conversation is changing
- They talk about time being a factor, that everybody is busier now
- And they talk about old TV talk shows, where they used to have one guest on for an hour,
- and now the same talk shows have five guests in the same time
- They talk about how our attention spans are shorter, that we have less patience for chit chat, and that we’re not good listeners
- All of which I agree with, but this article is from 2006, 11 years ago
- Now, in 2017, the situation is even worse
- The rise of so many text-based chat apps: WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, iMessage, Twitter and all the rest, mean we’re even more text-baed now, and not conversation based
- We’re conversing with each other, but less and less, we’re actually talking to each other
- You know, actually looking each other in the eye and saying words
- Let’s talk about one final example
- In the UK
- The good old British Public House used to be the place to find a conversation, every night of the week
- Often called Pubs, pubs used to be everywhere across the UK
- Any night, you could turn up to your local pub, and talk with people over a pint of beer
- They’re used to be 3 pubs within 2 minutes walking distance from my house about 10 years ago
- And now there’s 0
- Pubs are dying too, and they were one of the last bastions of the good old art of conversation