EMOTIONAL RESPONSIBILITY…
Hey before I get into the topic today, I want to thank everyone for listening. Last Wednesday was the biggest day we have ever had here at Being A Better Man; over 1130 of you listened to the show that day. The previous record was set back in March with 1102. Actually listenership has been up every day the last couple weeks and it’s all because of you guys out there listening, so thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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Ok, so the last episode, number 113 was called Best Friends…it was kind of a tear jerker. Not all stories can be happy and funny, some of them need to be sad because thats how life is, and we are talking about life after all right.
It was an emotional story for me too, you could probably tell…I had to take a couple breaks while I was recording it because it conjures up a lot of very real, very powerful emotions for me. Thats kind of what I want to talk about today. The difference between sharing authentic emotions in a manly way, as opposed to the unsolicited flagrant display of your weaknesses as a man. One of these works, and one doesn’t…that’s what I’m going to talk about.
As human animals we are all endowed with emotions, they are necessary for our survival just like our intellect, and our physical bodies are, they are part of the equation. There is a wide range of emotions too; fear, anger, love, hate, joy and sadness to name a few.
Of these…some are thought of to be perfectly fine for a boy or man to display, while others are frowned upon. I reject that theory, I always have. To me it always made sense that I was intended to use all the things I was given. In my way of thinking, to deny an emotion is the same as denying hunger, or thirst, or any other need I might...
