HOW TO HANDLE A BAD MOOD…
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Ok, today’s episode is about how a man handles being in a bad mood. A lot of us like to think we are never in a bad mood. Some of us like to act as though bad moods and moodiness in general are the exclusive domain of women…lets be honest though, we all know that isn’t true.
We are all human beings and sometimes, all of us are subject to finding ourselves in a less than cheerful disposition, regardless of our gender, or our intellect, our positive attitude, or our sheer toughness…It happens.
There is a formula out there that I agree with; it says life is 10% what happens to us, and 90% how we react to what happens to us, That 90% is the part that matters…that same formula applies to our mood.
It’s tricky business because if your aren’t thinking about it, or if you are in denial about the mood you are in, it might express itself in ways that are not consistent with the kind of man you want to be.
For example when some guys are in a bad mood it can make them short tempered and they snap at people around them. Some guys might actually get mean and say ugly things they don’t really mean. Other guys just become distant and aloof, separating themselves from the people around them which causes everyone else to feel like they did something wrong. None of these are good things.
The causes of a bad mood are infinite. Sometimes someone can say something that rubs you the wrong way, it gets under your skin and acts like an infection in your mind without you even realizing it was there. Or maybe something happened that disappointed you, or maybe several little things didn’t go your way all in a row? Perhaps you disappointed yourself somehow? The fact is, that is doesn’t take much to cause our brains to get unhappy and that results in a bad mood.
