MENTAL TOUGHNESS…
Today I just wanted to have a little reminder episode. Sometimes it’s good to just stop, and remember what we are up to here…what this whole being a better man thing is all about. If you have been listening for awhile then you are going through your life looking for opportunities to be a better man each day. You are thinking about it, you are becoming it.
Human nature dictates that when we do something good we often have a tendency to pat ourselves on the back and then rest on our laurels. It’s a natural thing, and something we all need to watch out for, myself included.
You know what I mean? You make some great strides. You notice your behaviors gradually changing for the better, you are seizing opportunities to be a better man. You get so proud of yourself that you start to feel like your done, like your dedicated commitment over the past two weeks are so wonderful that you can relax a bit.
It isn’t always a conscious choice, sometimes we are just informed by our own subconscious, and that’s why we need to be on the lookout for it. This is where mental toughness comes into play.
A lot of people go through life spending energy trying not to displease or disappoint certain people; our boss, a parent, a spouse or friend. The problem with that, is we can be crafty…we can hide things from these people at times.
That’s why it’s important for you to become that person you don’t want to displease or disappoint. It’s much harder to hide things from ourselves because we know all our secrets, and that is where being mentally tough can help you.
Mental toughness means that you become your own drill sergeant. You become the supervisor, of yourself. You make the intellectual decision each day to take stock of yourself, to set objectives, make assessments and implement corrections.
It may take some practice, but if you can learn to separate your intellect from your emotional mind and treat yourself objectively, then excuses no longer work. Justifications are made irrelevant and you are able to stand before yourself completely naked. In that moment…you have the opportunity to make improvements.
For many, many people this is a brand new skill. Like any new skill it requires effort, repetition and practice to gain mastery over it.
It’s kind of like learning to play a musical instrument; you practice and practice and gradually, you start to learn the chords. Gradually you are able to put a melody together. Your own ears, and anyone else listening will be able to hear your progress.
The difference is, in this case the only person who can hear or interpret your...
