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Today I want to talk about something that happened to me very recently…today actually. Without going into great detail…I was performing a skilled task in a professional setting. It was a task I had performed flawlessly many times before and it was something that came easily to me.
I was asked to demonstrate this task for some other people that were learning how to do it, and I happily obliged. Problem was…when I went to do it I totally screwed it up the first time. I was shocked and dumbfounded! How did this happen?
It was embarrassing, but I quickly regained composure and then I executed the task flawlessly three more times. When I was asked later what happened I thought about it for a minute and then replied as honestly as I could.
“I got cocky” was my response, and it was the truth…I had gained so much confidence with this task that I began to underestimate it. Then I stopped focusing on it, I acted as though all I had to do was show up and the task would perform itself. That is what happens when you get cocky.
I’m not sure if the word “cocky” is used in other english speaking countries, but there has to be a word for it in every language. It happens when you get just a little too full of yourself. When you start thinking you are better at something than anyone else, better than you really are. When you feel you no longer have to apply...
