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WHAT MOVES YOU FORWARD?

My name is Alf Herigstad, I am your host and fellow man in the trenches.  I will be guiding you into this labyrinth of manly musings.

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OK men.  Here we are, at the conclusion of another week in our life.  They just keep stacking up don’t they?  the days, weeks months and years…they just keep rolling along.  Time keeps moving forward, it cannot be stopped.

I think it’s important, as men to not let the wave of time wash over us and leave us behind.  If you aren’t paying attention, if you get lazy or complacent, time can roll right over your head and leave you sitting there…a stagnant, echo, of a man that could have been.

I know thats a little abstract, so I’ll explain it in more concrete terms.  I’ll define what kind of guy I’m talking about.

We have all known guys like this, perhaps we have even been this guy ourselves…or are right now.  It’s a guy that has got caught in a rut.  At some point he found a job that will do, a relationship that works ok, and friends that he knows what to expect from.  Where he lives is adequate, and his routine is predictable.  Then he just stops.

He stops initiating change, he stops wondering and dreaming.  This guy stops attempting to alter and improve the world around him because he has accepted his mediocrity and has become comfortable in his...