Why does speaking up for your child suddenly make you the problem? In this episode, BVBOE examines how parents—especially Black parents—are often tone-policed, labeled as “difficult,” or subtly retaliated against for advocating in school spaces. The team breaks down the patterns behind these responses and shares practical strategies to stay focused, protect your child, and advocate effectively without losing sight of the outcome that matters most: your child’s well-being and success.