What happens when a father sworn to protect his children becomes their killer? How could PTSD, mental illness, and a failed system turn a loving dad into a monster in a 2025 child murder-suicide that shocked Washington State?
In this episode, hosts Adrienne Barker and Joseph Lobosco delve into the Travis Decker triple homicide case – a shocking true crime tragedy in Washington – and debate its most troubling questions. Travis Decker, an Army veteran, murdered his three young daughters before taking his own life, triggering a multi-agency manhunt and raising debates about the veteran mental health crisis and the justice system’s role.
Tune in to hear:
- 2022–2024 – Downward spiral & custody battle: Travis and his wife Whitney separate amid his worsening mental health (PTSD and a borderline personality disorder diagnosis). Whitney voices safety concerns, leading a court to limit Travis’s unsupervised visitation with their daughters.
- May 30–31, 2025 – Disappearance of the Decker sisters: During a scheduled visitation, Travis fails to return 9-year-old Paityn, 8-year-old Evelyn, and 5-year-old Olivia to their mother. By late May 30, a frantic Whitney reports the girls missing. An Endangered Missing Person Alert is issued as police learn Travis has been living out of his truck at campgrounds – heightening fears in this Washington State murders case.
- June 2, 2025 – Triple homicide at a campground: Investigators find Travis’s pickup near the remote Rock Island Campground in Chelan County. Nearby, they discover the bodies of all three Decker sisters, suffocated with plastic bags over their heads and their wrists zip-tied. Chilling evidence (bloody handprints on the truck and camping supplies strewn around) suggests Travis planned the murders in advance. Travis himself is missing, turning the incident into a manhunt for the fugitive father.
- June 3–9, 2025 – Nationwide manhunt & revelations: Authorities charge Travis Decker in absentia with first-degree murder and kidnapping as a nationwide search intensifies. Police and federal agents scour the wilderness, noting the ex-soldier’s survival training could help him evade capture. A reported sighting in Idaho is debunked, and court documents reveal Travis scouted the campground days before the murders. Travis’s ex-wife’s attorney speaks out, calling him an “active dad” whom “the system failed” by not providing needed PTSD treatment. By June 9, autopsies confirm the girls were suffocated, intensifying public outrage and grief in this 2025 child murder-suicide case.
- June 24, 2025 – Grieving a community’s loss: Hundreds attend a public memorial service to honor Olivia, Evelyn, and Paityn. Through tears, loved ones share stories of the sisters’ bright personalities. Whitney Decker thanks supporters for their compassion, even as she’s left wondering if more could have been done to save her children.
- September 2025 – Final discovery & case closure: After three months with no sign of Travis, human remains are found in Washington’s rugged wilderness. On September 25, authorities confirm the remains are Travis Decker, who likely died by suicide. The manhunt ends with the sole suspect dead, leaving no trial – only painful questions about how and why this tragedy unfolded.
- Debate & analysis – Premeditation, PTSD, and systemic failure: Our panel debates whether Travis’s heinous act was a calculated plan or the result of a mental break. We examine how his combat PTSD and borderline personality disorder may have influenced...
