Description

What does it mean to reclaim your voice when you no longer want to borrow safety from proximity to power? In this solo episode, host Robrenna Parker explores the concept of adjacency—how we align ourselves with power structures for protection and what happens when our bodies signal it's time to stand on our own terms.

In This Episode:

1. A dream that revealed how the body protects through survival and self-preservation
2. Adjacency as adaptation — not weakness
3. The difference between hypervigilance and lived intelligence
4. How fawning functions as a trauma response alongside fight, flight, and freeze
5. The hidden cost of borrowing safety through alignment with power
6. Moving from borrowed calm to self-generated sovereignty
7. Reclaiming voice as an act of internal authority.

REFLECTIVE JOURNAL PROMPTS

1. Where does my body lower itself? In what types of rooms do I shrink, soften, or disappear?
2. What specifically feels dangerous there—misunderstanding, erasure, or premature visibility?
3. Where have I borrowed safety through adjacency?
4. When have I aligned myself with power to feel protected? What did it cost me and what did it give me?
5. What would visibility on my own terms look like?

Resources:

My Grandmother's Hands Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies By Resmaa Menakem

The Master's Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master's House by Audre Lorde

The Pocket Guide to the Polyvagal Theory The Transformative Power of Feeling Safe By Stephen W Porges

Betrayal Trauma: Traumatic Amnesia as an Adaptive Response to Childhood Abuse by Dr. Jennifer Freyd

Blind to Betrayal Why We Fool Ourselves We Aren't Being Fooled by Dr. Jennifer Freyd

Fawning By Dr. Ingrid Clayton

Connect with Robrenna:

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Credits: Executive Producer & Editor: Robrenna Parker

This podcast is published by RHR Media Co. Where voice is honored, and the story unfolds.

RHR Media Co. is the publishing and media arm of Reclaiming HER Resilience, LLC, creating story-centered media that honors voice, restores agency, and invites women back into authorship of their own lives.