On today’s episode, we are live from Dallas interviewing our client, Jason Treu. (Excuse the background noise from the Sheraton lobby!) Jason helps successful leaders overcome management and career challenges within their organizations.
- What are the most common pain points you find with your clients?
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- Most of it stems from early childhood trauma.
- These traumas are holding them back.
- Jason helps them change learned behaviors from childhood that are no longer serving his clients.
- How can managers deal with employee issues that may be personal?
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- You have to get to know people personally to help with their work performance.
- No one can truly separate work and personal.
- Conversations about what people really want are important, too.
- How possible is it for people to overcome traumas that happened during their early, formative years?
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- You can do it quickly. Most things are just a slight shift.
- People have be willing to change.
- One person Jason helped was having sales issues, but it turned out to be a deeper reason of shame about her voice. He helped her overcome this, which turned her sales around!
- What is the balance between being vulnerable and oversharing?
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- You have to understand the moment and the people you are sharing with.
- People have to earn the right to hear your story.
- You don’t have to have it all figured out.
- Find like minded people in your life who you can relate to. That way you don’t have to explain the whole backstory.
- What are some examples of questions a manager could ask to open up potential blocks?
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- If you are leading, you have to be vulnerable with the people you are leading.
- Take advantage of ways to be honest about finances, etc.
- When you meet new people, be honest that you expect performance at a high level but that mistakes are okay.
- Encourage people to share their ideas before you share yours.
- Cards Against Mundanity helps people open up and get to know each other as people. It creates psychological safety.
- You have to create the culture in the company.
- Psychological safety causes people to be more emotionally invested and work harder.
- People want to show up and be seen.
- How can managers show their staff that they are seen?
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- You have to work on yourself first.
- You can’t deal with tough questions if you can’t deal with your own stuff.
- Everyone wants to be vulnerable, but only if someone else goes first. The leader has to go first to show they care.
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