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Friendships, like all relationships, take time and effort. But it does more for your life than most of the health hacks you can think of; to shine more light on the subject, I have Lydia Denworth on the show.

Lydia Denworth is a science journalist based in Brooklyn, New York. She is a contributing editor at Scientific American, and the author of the book ‘Friendship: The Evolution, Biology, and Extraordinary Power of Life’s Fundamental Bond’. She has visited brain imaging labs and baboon troops in Kenya to understand friendship from a scientific perspective.

In this episode we discuss:

👉 How to understand friendship

👉 The difference between a good friend and a great friend

👉 How Vulnerability build friendship

👉 How intense experiences improve bonding

👉 How to make new friends

👉 Concrete steps to developing long lasting relationships

👉 And so much more…

If you're in a new city trying to build new friendships or want to increase the quality of your friendships, then don’t miss this episode.

Keynotes:

Keynotes:
0:54 Lydia’s journey into friendship

2:22 How to understand friendship

7:35 The difference between a good friend and a great friend

10:16 Walking away from unhealthy relationships

12:05 Lydia’s take on the saying you are the avg of the 5 most people you hang out with

15:40 Is friendship transactional?

17:40 How to be a good friend?

24:50 Having shared interests builds good friendships

29:00 Vulnerability in friendship

32:59 Why intense experiences improve bonding

34:49 How to make friends from scratch

38:18 How many friends can you have?

41:45 How to mend friendships

46:15 What has Lydia changed in herself after writing her book

51:45 Some concrete advice to developing relationships

55:45 Where you can find Lydia Denworth

56:15 Lydia’s advice for a happy, health and meaningful life

Connect with Lydia Denworth

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lydiadenworth/?hl=en

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ScienceWriterLydia

Resources

Lydia’s Website: https://lydiadenworth.com/