The other day on LinkedIn, there was a post (https://www.linkedin.com/posts/lenareinhard_many-bosses-like-to-say-something-along-the-activity-7305950821341380610--N5o?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAAACwlk8B_aCb2SXpDbHHORaRrI9SsfHvBMs) by Lena Reinhard, host of the Leadership Confidential podcast (https://www.lenareinhard.com/leadership-confidential), about the saying "don't bring me problems, bring me solutions". That post got me thinking.
In her post, Lena (https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenareinhard/) expresses that she is not a fan of that phrase because it make the target of the statement feel like they are left to do all of the work themselves. Her suggestion is clarification through communication. Does your boss really expect you to solve the problem on your own or how you can align the way you work and ask for help with the way that they work and offer help.
An example of how your work styles are not in alignment could be that in your one on ones with your leader, you may spend a large portion of the session complaining about a specific problem you're facing. Your manager may view that as asking for help but you just needed someone to vent to while you worked through conflict with another team.
As a natural problem solver, I often had a similar response with my wife. Sometimes, she just wanted to vent about things going on with her job and I would often offer suggestions on how to proceed. Because our styles were in conflict, this would lead to frustration on both of our parts. Being able to communicate and align work styles with your boss (or spouse) can eliminate the frustration and turn things back to being a productive relationship.
When everyone is on the same page when it comes to work style, what does your manager mean when they say "don't bring me problems, bring me solutions"? Your leader has a lot on their plate. They are responsible not just for keeping the members of their team productive and growing, but they also must take on tasks for THEIR leader. This often means that they are not able to spend a large portion of their day solving every problem on their team. They are looking for people to step up and own problems so that they don't have to. Unless they are a micromanager, they often only need to know about a problem under three specific conditions.
Sometimes, when you have a solution to a problem, you need either approval or authority to proceed with the solution; you may have considered the alternatives and formulated a solid plan, but you need your boss to sign off on the final decision or to champion it to other teams. This is the perfect time to engage your boss; just be prepared to demonstrate the alternative solutions you considered and why this is the best path forward. If this solution impacts other teams, you may even need to refine your presentation as you communicate your...
