#300: While Love and Physical attraction are often cited as the key to a good marriage, there is another aspect of marriage, a secret way of doing marriage that couples who have the best marriages know quite well. It goes well beyond a physical attraction and a choice to love…it’s Adoration. Adoring your spouse requires a fusion of your feelings and your choice to love. It’s when physical desire and commitment form a bond so strong it can’t be negatively influenced by any situation.