Description

January often arrives with pressure—to reset, improve, fix, and do better. But what if this year, you entered January differently?

In this reflective episode of Midlife with Brooke, Brooke Oniki invites you to slow down and reconsider how you think about growth, New Year’s resolutions, and personal change. Instead of asking “What do I need to fix?”, Brooke offers a gentler, more grounded question: “How have I already changed?”

Drawing from personal holiday experiences, meaningful family moments, and faith-filled reflection, Brooke encourages midlife women to honor the emotional, physical, and spiritual effort they’ve already made—especially during December—and to begin January with compassion rather than urgency.

This episode is a permission slip to rest, integrate, and recognize the quiet growth already happening in your life.

What You’ll Hear

1. Why setting the same goals every year doesn’t mean you’re failing
2. How growth happens quietly—in conversations, pauses, and repair
3. A powerful example of emotional repair with one of Brooke’s daughters
4. Why honoring December’s effort matters before asking more of yourself
5. How to tell the difference between being “behind” and being tired
6. The five pillars of nervous system regulation and why they matter in January
7. A faith-centered reframe on slowing down instead of pushing harder
8. Why you don’t need to become a new version of yourself—just notice who you’re already becoming

Reflection Prompts

1. Where have I already grown this past year, even if it wasn’t visible?
2. What effort did December require of me that deserves acknowledgment?
3. What pace feels supportive for me right now?
4. What might it look like to rest, not quit—just integrate?

Related Episode Mentioned

If allowing emotions feels difficult, Brooke references a previous episode that may be especially helpful:

Allowing Is the Goal: The Most Underrated Emotional Skill

Listen here:

https://brookeoniki.com/captivate-podcast/allowing-is-the-goal-the-most-underrated-emotional-skill/

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