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What happens when a recovery group uses fear to keep you from leaving?

In this episode, I unpack one of the most manipulative (and most normalized) control tactics inside AA:

phobia indoctrination—the messaging that to leave the group is to die.

We talk about:

• How this tactic is baked into AA's structure and slogans
• Why it feels so terrifying to leave—even if your intuition is screaming to go
• A real-life story of receiving one of these subtle “death threat” messages in the middle of a manicure
• Why this isn’t about bashing AA—but reclaiming your right to think, leave, and live

I also share how I worked through the phobia programming in therapy, and what finally helped me trust myself enough to walk away—and keep going.

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You're not alone—and you're not broken.

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