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We are talking about 2 keys to becoming more attractive to women. Every man wants to be attractive to women, but we often work on it from a man's perspective and not a woman's perspective. This has a bearing on both single men and married men. Your work in these two areas will help you grow as a man and be more attractive to women if you are a single man or your wife if you are married.
Being More Attractive Fits Single Men and Married Men
- Single men desire to be more attractive to women, but the biggest problem is they think about attractiveness from a man's perspective
- So what many single guys do is focus on their physical in order to get women
- This may attract some women but if we aren't mature emotionally they will often be shallow women
- Single men should focus on all the other areas of their life as much or more than their physical
- Smart married men would work to stay attractive to their wife
- All relationships are journeys and they can go to deeper and deeper levels of intimacy depending on how much the couple chooses to work on it
- Growth is a big key to a great long-lasting relationship
- They should grow themselves so they can love their wife better
The Authentic Journey
- Men must go on the authentic journey if they want to realize their full potential as men
- Too many men will put on different masks based on the situation and what they need to be
- Authenticity is attractive to women
- Women want a man who is genuine in his abilities and reactions
- A man's authentic self will attract the type of woman he is naturally attracted too
- An authentic man knows who he is and has a pretty good bearing of himself
- Authentic men want a real relationship and not just sex
- Being authentic helps us be more attractive to women and gives us the ability to experience deeper levels of intimacy with our wives
Security: The Secret Sauce
- One of the biggest weaknesses in men today is insecurity
- One of the biggest and most obvious reasons for insecurity is the lack of role models in boy's lives
- We must recognize our insecurities as men or they will enslave us
- Insecure men do not attract strong secure women
- Security gives us our own minds
- Security gives us the ability to stand against outside pressure
- Security gives us power over perfection
- Security gives us the propensity to grow
- Security is the secret sauce of attraction
