Description

Burnout recovery starts with slowing down. Yoga teacher Elena Brower shares how women over 40 can reduce brain fog, protect energy, and build sustainable courage.

Episode Description

Burnout recovery isn't about doing more—it's about carrying less. In this episode of The Uplifters, legendary yoga teacher, author, and artist Elena Brower shares her journey from New York City's achievement-driven yoga world to Santa Fe's spacious creative life, offering a roadmap for women over 40 ready to trade exhaustion for sustainable energy.

If you're experiencing brain fog, sleep disruptions from stress, or the physical toll of decades of overcommitment, Elena's story offers practical wisdom. She reveals how thriving in midlife means deliberately slowing down—not losing capacity, but gaining longer, richer days and protecting your nervous system from chronic overwhelm.

The Hidden Cost of Burnout After 40

Many women over 40 attribute fatigue, brain fog, and mood changes solely to perimenopause, but chronic stress and burnout compound these symptoms. Elena's journey demonstrates how addressing the root causes—endless commitments, external validation seeking, and poor boundaries—can improve both mental clarity and physical wellbeing.

What You'll Learn

Burnout Recovery Strategies:

• How to use Nonviolent Communication (NVC) for self-compassion and reducing internal stress
• Why deliberately slowing down improves focus, energy, and decision-making
• Practical techniques for setting boundaries with work and family (including stopping work at 5pm)
• The connection between achievement culture and nervous system dysregulation

Building Your Midlife Mindset:

• How to identify what you're carrying and why (fewer grudges, less rancor, fewer debts)
• The "Space of Genius" framework for organizing life around what matters most
• Why seeking external validation exhausts you and how to build internal trust
• How writing your stories creates retroactive healing without steeping in difficulty

Sustainable Courage Practices:

• The four-step NVC process: observation, feelings, needs, and self-compassion
• Elena's "truth has tears" writing practice for getting beyond comfortable truths
• How Zen practice builds the internal trust that replaces ambition-driven burnout
• Strategies for helping teenagers and partners take responsibility for their own emotional states

Why This Matters for Women 40+ at Work

The midlife mindset shift Elena describes isn't about opting out—it's about opting in to sustainability. For women over 40 navigating leadership, career transitions, or simply trying to maintain performance while managing physical changes, her approach offers an alternative to pushing through exhaustion.

Key Takeaways

Slower Creates Longer: Moving more slowly through your days paradoxically gives you the feeling of longer, richer days and reduces the cortisol response that worsens perimenopause symptoms.

Self-Empathy Reduces Physical Stress: The four-step NVC process (observe, name feelings, identify needs, self-compassion) helps regulate your nervous system before attempting to communicate with others.

Ambition and Mistrust Are Linked: The unconscious drive for external validation stems from internal mistrust. Building internal trust through practices like Zen meditation creates sustainable energy instead of burnout cycles.

Nobody Owes You Anything: Releasing the belief that people owe you attention or acknowledgment is one of the most freeing acts for reducing resentment and its physical...