Description

In this classic catch up episode, I’m sharing a life update from Japan. And a chapter that’s been one big reset for both me and my husband. We spent weeks apart and it gave each of us space to breathe, re-calibrate and reconnect with ourselves in unexpected ways.

I talk about what solitude showed me: my energy, my patterns, my tendencies to “perform,” even when I’m alone. I share the joy of friendship, the lightness that comes with good company, and the power of being around people whose season of life matches your own.

I also dive into boundaries (the simple, uncomfortable ones we all avoid), the influence of other people’s energy, the routines that ground me here in Japan, and why changing your environment can shift everything. Especially when you’re carrying grief, depression or the weight of life.

And because it’s me… there’s also a story about stickler meltdowns, boiled eggs, gluten-free bento boxes and my first experience with Botox.

In This Episode, I Cover:

• How time apart created an unexpected emotional reset
• What solitude can reveal about your energy, patterns, and identity
• Navigating grief while building a life you love
• Boundaries in relationships (the small ones that matter!)
• How other people’s energy shapes your own
• The routines and rituals supporting me in Japan
• A real-life example of saboteur contagion (stickler edition)
• And yes… my honest update on getting Botox for the first time

Key Takeaways

• Solitude gives you data you can’t access when you’re performing for others
• A reset often begins with a change of environment
• Protecting your morning energy matters
• Nourishing friendships can shift your internal state
• You can hold grief and joy at the same time
• Boundaries are a form of clarity, not conflict

You can find more resources and information on my website: kayaramjee.com