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Resilience in real-life from a non-Western perspective. (Cover photo, Appleton took responsibility for feeding kids in his village by diving and spearing food from the sea.)
“And if there’s any other person that is going through mental health problems or a very hard time in their life, or they have been through something really bad… I just want them to know that they’re not alone.” Alphanso Appleton
In This Episode of Therapist Uncensored on Trauma and Resilience,Alphanso Kwame Appleton, a Liberian native, shares his experiences of growing up in a country devastated by civil war, living through the Ebola epidemic, and tragically losing his young daughter. Despite these repeated experiences of trauma, he is healing and has found purpose in his life. This is an incredible story that absolutely captures what resilience looks like and we are pleased that his recovery did not rely on traditional Western approaches. We have so much to learn.
Interview by Sue Marriott.
Meeting AlphonsoMeeting in Liberia through Strongheart and by happenstance, through the work of Dan Siegel.
Mentoring youth
Surfing
Photography
Life in LiberiaThe Liberian Civil War
Escaping to Monrovia
Child Soldiers
Lack of education
“Iron Lady”How the love and faith of Alphanso’s grandmother, whom he describes as an
“Iron Lady”, protected him from rebel recruitment of child soldiers
The Effects of Lack of EducationEffects on Society
Effect on healthcare industry – and him personally regarding the loss of his daughter
The Ebola EpidemicThe lack of belief and understanding that Ebola was real
The spread of Ebola
Alphanso’s http://saganet.ning.com/photo/thank-you-science?context=latest (photo that went viral thanking science for the Ebola vaccine)
“…maybe my photo will help young Liberians know science helps the world and become scientists too.” – Photographer Alphanso Appleton
Personal TragedyThe loss of Alphanso’s 18 month old daughter, Lisa.
Alphanso’s Healing JourneyFaith
Strongheart – learning a meditation practice
Surfing
The Universal Language of PhotographyResilience through expression of emotion through photos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njwEvrpHhno (“The Liberia Project” by Apartial featuring Alphanso Appleton)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NcTJF2QiOxg&t=1s (“Portraits of Progress” by Alphanso Appleton)
Moving ForwardCurrent and future endeavors
Misconceptions about Africa
Words of wisdom
“Overall, it’s just finding something you love – something you love doing- something that brings you joy; something that makes you happy. Because that was a really key part of my transformation. That was a really key part of my healing.” Alphanso Appleton
Other episodes you may enjoy:https://www.therapistuncensored.com/tu91_curiosity_and_connection/ (TU91: Curiosity – One of the Most Powerful Tools For Connection)
https://www.therapistuncensored.com/adverse-childhood-experiences/ (TU33: Adverse Childhood Experiences: A Roadmap To Understanding And Treatment)
Resourceshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6cPt9UbDtZA&feature=emb_title (“Alphanso Appleton: A Story of Becoming”)
http://www.bbc.com/travel/story/20151022-the-making-of-child-surfers-not-child-soldiers (The Making of Child Surfers, Not Child Soldiers)
https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/robertsport-liberia-surfers-paint-landscape/ (Article in Global Citizen – Surfers Paint Liberia)
https://strongminds.org/?fbclid=IwAR398sF0RXoXYt-KgEFY9Bu5So7kc0DhwR68O1BdKlrNVipp3TR1KlpBP7c (Strongminds.org)
Alphanso’s contact information alphanso19@gmail.com
 
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