The mental load—that constant, invisible list of organizing, planning, and anticipating—is a leading source of strain in modern relationship dynamics, especially as holiday stress peaks this mental load. In this episode, Jess and Tamara unpack the weight of this unseen emotional labor and why it often falls unevenly, leading to feelings of resentment. Hear why invisible labor creates deep resentment and how better communication and empathy are the keys to a healthier partnership. Learn some practical tips on becoming better team mates and looking out for one another. They offer couples strategies for auditing and sharing these responsibilities—a process they call making the invisible >>> visible. Tune in to learn how to transform resentment into effective teamwork and find balancewith margin too, so you can stop asking, "What are you doing with your time?" and start nurturing each other's wellbeing.
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