In this episode of Unlocking The Parenting Code, we sit down with Becky Nieves, a mother of four whose parenting journey spans three decades—from her 21-year-old son to her 2-year-old toddler.
Becky opens up about navigating the diverse roles of being a Marine Mom, Rare Disease Mom, and Neurodivergent Mom while juggling business ownership and a commitment to public service as a school board member. Her story is one of resilience, perseverance, and deep love for her children, rooted in her guiding parenting philosophy: "Whatever it takes."
Becky shares how she defied the odds as a teenage mom, earned her degree, and built a thriving family and career. She discusses advocating for her children, each with unique needs, including her son diagnosed with ADD after she refused to settle for an inaccurate label. Her advocacy led her to become deeply involved in public education, so no other parent would face what she did.
From her daughter's rare genetic disease to navigating the complexities of ADHD, Becky talks about the life lessons that shaped her parenting style, including how therapy, communication, and a solid partnership with her husband helped her keep the family strong through life's toughest challenges. She stresses the importance of self-care, balance, and the power of apologizing to her children on the hard days. Her philosophy of "taking your mental temperature" and adjusting as needed has been vital to maintaining her well-being.
Becky also reflects on the unique dynamic of raising adult children, the ongoing challenges, and how it sometimes feels easier to manage a 2-year-old than a 21-year-old! With humor and heart, she shares how she's learned to parent each child differently, embracing the philosophy of following her gut and making the most of the cards life dealt her.
Becky Nieves is a dedicated mother of four, with a wealth of experience advocating for her children’s unique needs. As a Marine Mom, Rare Disease Mom, and Neurodivergent Mom, she balances business ownership and a commitment to public service as a school board member. Through her journey of resilience and love, Becky inspires families to embrace their challenges and seek advocacy in public education.
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