Discover why you can't out-behavior a limiting identity and learn the exact 5-step process for becoming someone who naturally takes care of their body.
This episode reveals how to bridge the gap between knowing what to do and actually becoming the person who does it automatically.
Most people try to change behaviors without changing identity. Your behaviors will always align with your identity beliefs - if you see yourself as someone who "struggles with food," you'll prove that belief right even when trying to change.
Identity shifts happen through proving it to yourself, not positive thinking. Start collecting small pieces of evidence that support your new identity: "I am someone who naturally takes care of my body."
You're already the person you want to become in other areas of life. If you're reliable at work or caring with family, those same traits apply to self-care - you just need to extend them to food.
Instead of asking "What should I do?" ask "What would someone who naturally takes care of their body do in this situation?" Make decisions from your new identity, not old patterns.
When identity and behaviors align, there's no internal conflict or willpower required. Taking care of yourself becomes as automatic as brushing your teeth - it's just who you are.
Complete the 7-day identity transformation challenge:
Keep a simple list: "Evidence I'm someone who naturally takes care of my body." No moment is too small - you're building a new identity one piece of evidence at a time.
"You can't out-behavior a limiting identity. When you shift your identity to someone who naturally takes care of their body, the behaviors follow automatically. Your transformation starts with your identity - everything else follows."
