What if the arguments you’re avoiding/repeating/stuck in… are the exact ones that could make your life better?
In this week’s Weirdly Personal, I’m getting into the fights we should be having in our thirties — and the ones we can finally stop wasting energy on.
After spending way too much time arguing with men on the internet (productive? questionable), I realised just how much of our energy goes into the wrong conflicts - and how powerful the right arguments can be.
Arguments aren’t about winning; they’re about understanding, clarity and connection.
In this episode, I break down:
✨ The five arguments you never need to have again
✨ The fights that actually improve your life - values, alignment, accountability and equality
✨ How to spot the real issue underneath a conflict
✨ How to argue in a way that brings you closer, not further apart
If you’ve ever replayed a conversation 47 times, avoided a necessary conflict, or found yourself knee-deep in a pointless debate, this one will shift how you think about arguing in your thirties.
Listen, reflect, and maybe send this to someone you’ve been avoiding a conversation with.
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