We cannot attain it, it is beyond the scope of our abilities, our intellect, but when we are sincere, when we are serious, humble and we are eager to serve the Supreme Lord and all living beings through him with no ulterior motive, then Krishna is eager, Srimati Radharani the feminine potency, the source of all grace is eager to deliver us. That is why we come on pilgrimage to focus on what is really important in life.