Nookie grew up in an environment that shaped her life forever. We hear about how a non judgemental sexually open family can bring you to kink and feel like it's just the way life is. Nookie is never happy with the status quo. She thinks things thru, and tries to see all the angles. If we never look at things in a different light, how will the world ever move forward? I think that is a great way to live your life.