This minicast is inspired by a writing by my friend and the co-host of The 3rd Rail on TPOK Radio Cypress. If you are on Fetlife here is the link to the writing. https://fetlife.com/users/4314/posts/3737389 Cypress talks about his poly and who he is as anything but lucky. I totally agree with everything he says. Kink is general has very little to do with luck. It takes hard work and dedication to look at yourself and the people around to figure it out. Every great relationship and player in this lifestyle has put in the work and understands that work is never done. Thank you Cypress!