True growth isn't a destination, but the result of choosing to stay in "training mode" through every life challenge.
On this episode of the Slight Shift Show, Angela and Chris dive into personal stories about overcoming limiting beliefs, the trap of "waiting for the right time," and how to redefine "training" as a holistic practice for the mind, body, and soul.
How to redefine training mode:
- The "When/Then" Trap: Angela discusses how many people chase a finish line, thinking they will be happy when a project is done or when they reach a certain milestone. Only to find the goalposts have moved. The shift is learning to let life's goals run in tandem with current happiness.
- Redefining Training (ABT): Chris introduces the concept of ABT (Always Be Training). He explains that training isn't just about the gym. It's about training your response to a rude driver, practicing patience, and preemptively sharpening your mindset through meditation and reading to handle stress before it hits.
- The Power of Self-Respite: Angela shares her journey of unlearning the guilt associated with taking time for herself. She explains how "recentering" through documentaries or quiet time allows her to show up as a better person for others.
- Overcoming External Labels: Chris and Angela reflect on moments where a "wrong" belief was handed to them. They discuss the importance of shedding those external narratives to create a new trajectory.
- The "Training Extra Hard" Mindset: Angela shares her favorite mental shift. When life gets frustrating or overwhelming, tell yourself, "I'm just training extra hard today." This reframe turns a negative experience into a productive exercise in grace, patience, or resilience.
- Digital Presence vs. Reality: A discussion on the importance of looking up from our phones to smile and connect with the people right in front of us, emphasizing that the most important moment is always the one you are currently at.
