Definition: A Pick Me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.
- Why are you pressed for a man
- Pace your excitement especially early on
- He has to show who he is first, before you invest your time, money, and feelings
- Establish what you want early on
- Learn the difference between conforming and compromising
- Titles matter
- Only invest your time where there is a return
- Equal effort
- Pay attention to his actions and words
- Don't fear asking questions the communication start early on
2a.) Find The Balance In Submission
- We love a man that leads and takes control but we can't be a complete pushover
- Make him work for it
- Example: He doesn't like natural hair, so you perm your hair to please him
- Dropping everything for him if he hits you up with plans last minute
- Sticking to your boundaries and standards
- Being single doesn't mean you're lonely
- When you love yourself enough you can continue to honor your solitude
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