- Recognition | Terms of Endearment
- How does he acknowledge you?
- Ex: Babe, Boo, Pet Name, Hun, Sweet Heart, Pumpkin, Big Head, Never Calls You By Your Name
- Does he call anyone else by the same "pet name" or term of endearment
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- Peep how he saves you in his phone
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- "Butt Dial" while you're near him if you need to
- Does he introduce you to people? If so, ho does he introduce you with a title
1a.) Communication
- Does he call you only at night?
- Is he sneaky about it?
- Does he ever FaceTime? Or avoid you?
- Rarely go out in public
- Time he sets the date
- Cancels a lot / reschedule
- Never wants to go out
- Netflix and Chill
2a.) Establish Your Expectations
- Have date places (activities and restaurants in mind)
- Say what you're looking for / See how he responds
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- Does he avoid the topic
- Redirect the conversation
- Makes you feel like you're crazy / making things up
- He smells good
- He knows what to say to trip you up
- Has charm and a dash of culture
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- Will expose you to new things
- Make you feel like you're the one when he's around
- Disappears and says nothing when he's away
- Poor communication
- Multidates behind your back
- Always has an excuse
- He will ghost you
Honorary Mentions
- Checks out other people when you're together
- Asks for nudes early in the conversation
- Too Sweet, Too Fast (Hey Queen, Goddess, etc)
- Holes in their stories
- Missing for hours on end
- Emotionally unavailable
- After You Spot Him / Keep Dating
- Don't be committed to one person if you're not in a relationship
- Don't sit around waiting for a man to call you.
- Don't be accessible for him if he's not making you a priority
- Have him show mutual respect
- Don't assume you two are exclusive
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