Are you under the Enneagram numbers 2, 3, and 4? What are the healthy traits that you see in yourself or others as a leader? What do you think are the growth opportunities from your leadership blindspots?
It’s the last part of the three-part episode, and in this episode, it’s all about the Heart/Shame triad or the Enneagrams 2, 3, and 4. Stef shares what this triad is all about and why it’s called the Heart/Shame triad. She shares how each number shows up as healthy and unhealthy leaders under this triad. She shares the leadership blindspots and insightful questions for each number. She will also share her thoughts on why you need to learn about all these and more if you are under the Heart/Shame triad.
Get ready for another episode that can help you embrace and improve your leadership style through understanding your Enneagram number. And if you want to know more, make sure you listen to Episodes 10, 12, and 13 - links below!
“Twos are often referred to as the helper and that really. Really is the best word to describe them. They're amazing, amazing people.”
“Twos are very servant-oriented, servant leadership. They automatically attune to their audience, and they have a strong work ethic about the value of selfless service.”
“Twos often think that they like to give in a generous, selfless way without expecting anything in return. And when they're healthy twos, that's absolutely true.”
“Threes are success-oriented people. They're very motivated by a need to be successful. And they avoid failure at all costs.”
“Threes have a strong understanding between right and wrong. And they're here to do good in the world.”
“It helps if threes connect more with their unacknowledged feelings because their emotions truly can help them know who they really are and what they want.”
“Fours are the unicorns of the Enneagram. They are very creative and highly motivated by a need to be unique and special.”
“Fours have a large capacity for depth of feeling. They feel all things and make awesome counselors, sounding boards, and they're friends that are not afraid to go there with you.”
“When it comes to connections and boundaries of relationships when fours are in the lane of being a very conscious, healthy leader, they are not worried about feeling misunderstood.”
“Just have some compassion for yourself along the way throughout this journey because facing this is really hard, and it's difficult to navigate.”
“All of us, no matter what number we are on the Enneagram, bring something highly valuable to the table as leaders. And likewise, we have an Achilles heel as a leader that holds us back.”
Listen to Episode 10: Why I LOVE the Enneagram here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6V5dB5fjZ3BqGC4YcmkYs9?si=470a69a98c394bc0
Listen to Episode 12: The Gut/Anger Triad here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3AGtVNU76mKwF0yCbi6ce2?si=2cca4f31a9b64f0c
Listen to Episode 13: The Head/Fear Triad here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3H6tObAX5YZLQjzfQ0SIRK
Take Ian Cron’s Enneagram Test here: https://www.ianmorgancron.com/type-test
Check out Beatrice Chesnut, PhD. books here: https://www.beatricechestnut.com/books
