Investing in yourself is the greatest investment you can make in yourself as a husband and father. Sometimes that means putting yourself first, and that may be in direct conflict with the spouse or child's wants/desires- So be it. You have to put your oxygen mask on first if you want to help others. You have to put yourself first if you want to be a man of value. Both are true, and both say that you have to take care of yourself before you try to help someone else. Be selfish to be the best man you can be. If you're enjoying the content, be sure to like, review, and spread the good word.