A marriage mentor, mom and fellow podcaster empowers people to find the good in their relationships as we discuss LOVE. Michelle Hays writes for a column at the Happy Herald and Lighthouse Point magazine.
Is it a feeling? Excitement? Excitement all the time? How does it change over time? As we grow and as we grow up...
How do you perceive your relationship? What do you focus on? The positive stuff? The other stuff?
Love is a decision. 100%.
When you're loving someone, you have to also love yourself first. Sometimes we forget that. At least I do.
Are you loving your partner so much that you are losing yourself? Are you doing things with others (other than your partner) to feel happy in your relationship?
Are you being possessive and wanting to be with your partner all the time? Is that healthy?
Are you feeling valued in your relationship? Is your partner valuing you? Do they chip in and do what makes you feel valued? Are you communicating these needs diplomatically?
Do you say "Would You" instead of "Could you"?
ARE YOU STAYING AUTHENTIC TO YOURSELF TO FEEL REJUVENATED AND HAPPY TO EVEN BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP?
Are you doing what matters to you and what makes you feel good? To be your best authentic self.
When you are focusing on your partner and making them feel really loved, that when the magic starts to happen....Tune in to find out... HOW to do this?
We are all in this together! We are not ALONE!
