In this interview, author, advocate, and therapist Chris Tompkins shares his personal journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised in a religious environment. He discusses the challenges of reconciling his identity with his faith, the impact of religious trauma, and the importance of awareness in parenting to support LGBTQ+ children. Chris talks about why he wrote his book, “Raising LGBTQ Allies,” and emphasizes the need for open conversations and practical strategies for parents to create a supportive environment for their kids, ultimately leading to a more inclusive society.
Takeaways
Chris was raised in a religious family with conflicting beliefs.
He experienced religious trauma and internalized homophobia.
His coming out journey was deeply intertwined with love and acceptance.
Chris emphasizes the importance of awareness in parenting.
Parents can inadvertently perpetuate fear-based associations.
Books and open conversations can help educate children.
Creating safe spaces for discussions is crucial.
Understanding societal messages is key to supporting LGBTQ+ kids.
Chris's book aims to help parents change harmful narratives.
Healing from religious trauma is a journey that requires introspection.
Chapters
(02:40) Chris's Journey of Self-Discovery
(10:13) Reconnecting with Faith and Spirituality
(16:32) Understanding Religious Trauma
(22:30) The Importance of Awareness in Parenting
(27:54) Supporting LGBTQ+ Kids: Practical Strategies
(35:00) Conclusion and Resources
Resources:
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