In this episode, we're unpacking a common—and harmful—myth in autism and AAC support: the idea that communication must be earned.
You'll hear why treating AAC as a reward makes regulation harder, not easier—and how unconditional access to communication supports regulation, trust, and participation, especially during autism meltdowns.
This episode reframes AAC as access, not a behavior strategy, and offers practical ways to support communication during real-life moments of distress.
Why AAC should never be used as a reward
How communication and regulation are deeply connected in autism
What happens when AAC is removed during autism meltdowns
Common autism meltdown causes related to communication breakdown
Why withholding an AAC device can increase distress and shutdown
How AAC supports self-advocacy and emotional safety
What modeling AAC during dysregulation can look like (without pressure)
How shifting adult mindset changes long-term outcomes
Communication is a basic human right, not something children earn
AAC supports regulation instead of waiting for it
Withholding communication can increase meltdowns and reduce trust
Modeling AAC without expectation builds safety and access
Keep the AAC device available during moments of frustration or distress
Model one regulation-related word (help, stop, or all done) without expecting a response
Honor protests and communication attempts as meaningful
If you're realizing AAC has been used conditionally—or you're unsure how to support communication during hard moments—you're not alone.
My AAC Bootcamp is designed to help educators and caregivers confidently model AAC across the entire day, including transitions, play, and moments of dysregulation.
AAC doesn't need to be perfect to be powerful.
When communication is always available, regulation becomes more possible—for everyone.
