Andy reads Chapter 1 from his new book, "The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" - a no-bullshit diamond and ring buying guide for guys who'd rather be anywhere else than a jewelry store. This episode covers the single most important piece of advice for buying an engagement ring without getting screwed over.
The Golden Rule: Find a jewelry store where you feel comfortable going. That's it. That's the secret.
Why This Matters:
Finding Your Unicorn Jewelry Store:
Three Methods:
Email the store - Tell them you need help. If the response feels too formal or generic, move on.
Call them - A good jeweler on the phone is like a good first date - there's either chemistry or there isn't.
Walk in and get down to business - Most terrifying but nothing beats face-to-face. You'll know within 5 minutes if it's your place.
When it feels right - buy it. Don't do the "I need to look around" dance that fear makes you think you have to do. When it clicks, it clicks. Pull the trigger and be done with it.
Why this works:
Find a jewelry store where you don't feel like you're standing there with your zipper open (but check that before you go in, just to be safe). Connect with someone who speaks your language, not "diamond-ese." When it feels right, trust your gut and pull the trigger.
"The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" is available on Amazon. Andy is creating an audio version while keeping the podcast going by reading chapters on the show.
Warning: Contains raw language, unfiltered advice, and the kind of talk you'd get from your most honest friend after a few drinks.
Chapter 2 coming soon - more straight talk and war stories from the jewelry trenches.
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